Kristal spent years thinking that teaching a room full of 30 kids in the inner city was tough but rewarding. Then she became responsible for just four kids, and discovered brand new definitions for tough and rewarding. That’s what led her to become a parent educator, to help other parents build strong relationships with the children in their lives and to help more kids have a chance to grow into successful adults. (You can get in touch with her through her website Parenting with Kristal Melbye by clicking the link above.) Having a family is Kristal’s dream come true. She’s grateful every day for her kids and the time she get to spend with them. But, she’s also grateful for a chance to have a little escape, a chance to reflect, an opportunity to share. And that's why she writes.

Not Part of the “In” Mom Group

I was driving my daughter and her friend home after school and, when talking about weekend plans, I learned that her mom was going out of town for the weekend. When I pulled up to...

Bedtime Battles — How to Get your Child to Go to Sleep

If you have a child who goes to bed easily and sleeps through the night, that is great. This article is not for you. Or, if you’re happy with your sleep situation and it’s...

Should you consider ADHD medication for your child?

Raising a kid with ADHD is hard. Raising any kid is hard, but when your child has ADHD it takes the struggles and kicks them up a notch... or eight. I struggled with my...

A Lesson from a Pile of Mismatched Socks

I tried to squish a few more single socks into the bin I designated for mismatched socks. As they fluffed back up and fell over the side, I decided I’d better do something about...

Why I Won’t Let You Use Social Media: An Open Letter to My Daughter

Dear Daughter, You asked me again why I won’t let you use social media. And, once again, I didn’t do an excellent job of explaining my reasoning. I know it stinks to feel like you’re the...

No Perfect Parents

"Everyone is a perfect parent... until they have kids" -Unknown One of my first memories is being angry that my aunt wouldn’t let me, an exuberant four-year-old, hold my newborn cousin, so I couldn’t wait...

You Can’t Have It All

I’m in a really good place right now. If you’re thinking, well, goody for you, I get it. But, I say this because I have struggled with depression and anxiety since my childhood. And,...

They Need To Hear The Good Things

It was one of those cold, damp mornings when I really didn’t feel like sitting outside and watching hours of soccer games. I was feeling off in general. It was early. I hadn’t slept...
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There Are Some Things They Will Never Understand

There are some things we did when we were young that our children will never truly understand. When I was in middle school, I would pose my cat Mittens to look like he was...

How to Not Yell at Your Kids

Oh, my gosh. I’ve been there. And, there are a lot of us there. The school year is in full swing, and although this summer we thought the lack of structure was the problem, that's no longer...